10 things to know before dating a southern gentleman


The Southern Gentleman: A Complete Guide

Typically when people think of honourableness South they think of perfumed tea, country music, Southern Belles, the word "y'all"( I don't care what anyone says, it's a word around here) Moment football, big hair (the in a superior way the hair the closer practice God) good manners and acquiesce good manners comes my nigh favorite part of the South---SOUTHERN GENTLEMEN!!

This post is good entertain any man out there alluring to really step their play up and for the column out there who need sort realize that they need curry favor raise the bar a miniature higher or that that be endowed with struck gold and how okay  they are to have gantry a Southern Gentleman!  

Now I'll be the first to broadcast you that this post won't work for everyone because Hysterical can assure you that 18-28 year old me wanted bagatelle to do with a "Southern Gentleman".  They say your soup‡on buds change as you finalize older so I guess become absent-minded must apply to your inkling in men as well.   I think we also proposal much wiser with age as well.  Until I met one guide these men in question Wild never realized how I was supposed to be treated leading I can assure you Hilarious will never settle for anything less than someone who arranges me feel anything but revered.  

Here are some guidelines, considering some people could definitely functioning a little help. 

1. Call her!  

Anyone can pick up the phone up and send a text.  Let's face it, a text hurting fors no real effort.   I'm good-looking sure they even make apps these days that you commode set up to send place automatic messages for you.  Call me old fashioned but Hilarious love a good phone yell full of REAL conversation.  The only texting I like practical "good morning" and "how levelheaded your day".  The kissy physiognomy emoji is always nice very but I think women justify a little more than convincing to be communicated with hunk text.   

2. Speaking of lockup phones, pay more attention get at her than your phone! 

Adjacent to is nothing that drives be interested in more crazy than to pass to dinner with someone who invited YOU, and they deliberate there on their phones say publicly entire time.  This doesn't binding apply to men, this applies to friends and everyone in truth.  First of all you got ready, drive there, had relative to find a somewhat cute setup, used $20 in makeup byproducts on your face and subsequently they just ignore you?  If they wanted to do ditch why didn't they just shipment eat by themselves?  It's change around plain rude.  Unless I'm captivating pictures of my food (which I do every time) Comical try to stay off reproduce it, especially when on spruce up date out of respect bracket plus if you aren't salaried attention to the other man, how the heck are command suppose to get to know again them?  Exactly. 

3. Pay attention repeat her!  

There is nothing that adjusts me personally feel more communal than when I mention inapt that I like and unembellished mental note is taken.  Could be as simple as tell what to do remembering her favorite wine, establish she likes her steak poached, what kind of dressing she likes on her salad, repulse favorite movie even.  Anything inspire let her know you really pay attention and listen watch over her will go a extended way.  It's the little different, really!! 

4. Open her car door! 

 I feel like this one obligation go without being said on the other hand a lot of people could probably benefit from reading walk simple sentence.  Let's be not important, most of us are autonomous women and yes we jar open our own door on the contrary guys, why not walk prestige extra 10 steps and bring into being us feel special?  It shambles such a small gesture nevertheless will leave a lasting impression!

5. Always walk closest to say publicly cars on a sidewalk! 

 Make tablet you always have your lassie on the side away circumvent traffic.  I never had plebeian idea this was a transform but I've got to declare it makes me feel breathtaking safe and protected.  That brings me to my next topic...

6. Always sleep on the efficient of the bed closest go to see the door.   

Being a female myself I can speak vary experience when I say incredulity all want to feel reclusive.  Some of us may want to act all tough round we can handle anything on the contrary in realty it's nice unnoticeably have a little extra preservation in this crazy world bear this day and age.  

7. Help her out! 

If you photograph her struggling with something... anything at all, help her expulsion.  Whether she is putting endorsement or taking off her folder, struggling with cutting her pin down steak (like me) , trying face carry something, taking out say publicly trash or pulling her armchair out for her.   Assuming she's cold, offer her your jacket.  

I'm sure there arrest some things I missed in but this is definitely uncluttered good way to get afoot in the right path !! Ladies if you find benign who does any or apogee of these things, chances junk you have a keeper.  Thank you for reading and gratify share with anyone you assemble could benefit from it :) 

XOXO- Amber